Why is it that when women get together we often complain or joke about our husbands?
I have on occasion been with a group of friends and taken part in this little, “Can you believe what he did/does?” conversation. I have shared a story or two. It is always one of those moments where the ‘filter’ fails and my mouth moves faster than my brain.
In the end I wish I could hit rewind. I thought about what my participation in this sort of sharing might set as an example for my son (and of course my daughter too).
If I love my husband, I should want to lift him up, not tear him down.
As the mother of a son, there is great responsibility on my shoulders. I must raise my sons to become men while considering that they might one day become husbands. Maybe one day down the road they will become fathers as well. (Way down the road!)
Right now I have two little boys, but I am raising men.
As the mother of a son, the lessons for the future must be taught today. I must change myself to set a better example…as a wife and as the mother of a son.
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You will make a difference, because you have a different point of view. Kudos to you! I am the mother of a now grown son. I marvel at him every day and am proud of the man he's become. My heart soared the first time he brought a young woman home and cooked dinner for her…setting the table and making some of his favourites. Salut to all mothers of sons. Share your stories at motherofason.wordpress.com
It's a unique challenge, raising boys to be men. Sounds like you have much experience to share. Thanks for commenting and leaving your link for others who may be interested. Take care!
I couldn't agree more. I have been blessed with 2 sons and my biggest concern was always how they will treat their wife. But you are right. I want their wives to respect them too. I guess I need to step up my game as a mom once again.
Doesn't it seem that we always have to look at ourselves as we approach this role of parenting our children? That is the frustrating part, for sure. Setting the example and continuing to grow ourselves really benefits our kids. I am so glad that this connected with you. We really are so influential in the lives of our children. Cheers to you for wanting to be the best mom (and wife) that you can be. I wish you well! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts on this post.
This really hit home. I'm young, married, and a mother of not only one son, but two. I try very hard to respect my husband and it's really hard at times. Considering, we both are never on the same brain wave. You really inspired me to try harder on a lot of things. Thanks.
Amanda, that is all any of us can do who want the next generation to be better than we are: just try harder. I know I am still learning and trying to be a better version of myself every day-many days I fail. Tomorrow is another day to try again. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!