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Home » motivation » Seeking Balance as a Stay-at-Home Mom, Work-at-Home Blogger

Seeking Balance as a Stay-at-Home Mom, Work-at-Home Blogger

I never wanted to be a work-at-home mom. Trying to juggle work and kids seemed like too big a task to tackle. Life had other plans. SAHMs share how they balance working at home while focusing on caring for their families in this mom blogger blog hop

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The working mom/WAHM thing never appealed to me. I had no desire to try to balance my family and my work. Loose ends stress me out. I do not like having to set a project aside and leave it unfinished. Life has taken me down roads I often have no interest in traveling, but often those experiences that break me out of my comfort zone are the greatest opportunities for learning. Blogging has been this type of experience in my life.

I had no idea what I was getting into when I started the Stay-at-Home Mom Survival Guide. I never read parenting blogs or mommy blogs, but did read the occasional blogs about politics and religion. I enjoy reading the opinions of others on those two subjects. I enjoy the process of agreeing and disagreeing that takes place when we listen to the perspective of others.

When I started this blog, I assumed others were like me. I assumed others would understand that my perspective as a stay-at-home mom had been shaped by my experiences, and that sharing them was to help and not hurt; to engage in discussion about the state of parenting, motherhood and the family unit.

What shocked me about blogging was how often people will actually attack. I have received messages saying, “You should not have posted that statement,” “You are being judgemental,” or “You are wrong for choosing to parent that way!”

Amazing stuff, right? I hope some personal friends  and family of mine are reading this, because they might be amazed by these things. They know me, how I parent, and how my children behave. We are not THAT crazy. 🙂

I had no idea how thick my skin had to become as a blogger. Life prepared me well.

Why I Started Blogging

I really was content to be a Stay-at-Home Mom. “JUST” being a stay at home mom was a major goal in my life. I told my husband before we were married that when we had children (if we had children) I was going to stay at home with them. I wanted to be present every day for my children like my mom was for me.

As a new mom, I started meeting and befriending a lot of moms who did not share my passion or enjoyment for being a SAHM. They felt robbed of their goals and dreams, and were beginning to dislike their role as “just” wife and mom. I felt called to help them focus on the joys, the benefits and the long term goals of being a stay-at-home mom, the long-term benefits of being present for our children.

I posted a status update on my Facebook profile meant to help friends find ways to feel empowered and valuable as “just” stay-at-home moms. A friend of mine said to me, “You should start a blog?” A few other friends commented that I should do it since I had so much experience in early childhood education, and had a natural ability to find the value in being a stay-at-home mom. So, the rest-they say-is history.

The blog opened up a lot of opportunities for me. Blogging turned into more than just a way to encourage other moms. It became my me time. It became my release. Then it became a way to make extra money to help support my family.

Strategies for building blog traffic, work at home blogging resources for moms.

 

If you are a work at home mom, you know seeking balance can be a constant search. Stay-at-home moms who are mom bloggers, share their thoughts on the "how to" of balancing being a SAHM with being a blogger.

Finding Balance and Joy as a Stay-at-Home, Work-at-Home, Mom Blogger

Family always comes first as hard as it can be at times to set a new post aside unfinished. But this blog will always be here, my children will not stop and wait for me to be done.

The reality is caring for children ALWAYS leaves loose ends and unfinished projects because we always have to stop what we are doing to attend to something more important or someone who needs us RIGHT NOW! There is no way to avoid it.

I am caring for my kids, and sneaking in a few minutes for the blog when they have quiet time, after they go to sleep and when I can fit it in on weekends. When my husband is home he gets the majority of my time in the evenings. I probably have about 1-2 hours a day during the week, and 2 hours a day on the weekends to devote to just blogging. Not always, but on the ideal days that is how it works.

I could work on this blog from sun up to sun down. Writer’s block is not a problem for me. I wish I could catch a case of it, because I have more ideas than time to write right now. But, that is the problem with seeking balance in this season of motherhood: We can not do it all all of the time.

Every day brings a new challenge for finding balance as a work-at-home, stay-at-home mom blogger. The internet has opened up so many options for us. There are many resources for working at home. You can even build a home-based business selling essential oils! Health benefits for your family AND you help others live a healthier lifestyle.

Blogging is fun and exciting. I get to create and share, and even get paid to do it without having to charge you a thing! You get mom motivation, activities for infants, toddlers, preschoolers and school age kids, reviews of products, homemaking tips, and more free. Plus, as a subscriber you get additional freebies just because I love sharing with you.

I appreciate the time you take to read, comment, and “share”. Those little acts have a big impact on the blog-more than you know.

 

Thoughts from mom bloggers on how they balance being stay-at-home moms and work-at-home moms-many are homeschool moms too! If you wonder if working at home can work for you, this is a great resource.

How to Be a Stay-at-Home Mom Blogger Blog Hop

A few stay at home mom blogger friends have joined with me today to share their blogging insights, stories, and experiences with you. If you’ve ever wanted to learn what life is like as a stay-at-home mom blogger, or see if it could work for you, this is your chance. Work-at-home moms, homeschool moms, stay-at-home moms-we have all kinds in this blog hop!

 

How I do it all as a homeschooling WAHM – What’s Up Fagans?

Half Empty or Half Full? – pfeifferphotography72 – Photography Enthusiast

Laughter, Love, and Meltdowns: Being a SAHM Blogger – Play Dough and Popsicles

The Secret life of a Homeschooling Mom Blogger – Craft Create Calm

The Truth About Being A Blogging Homeschool Mom – Organized Home Organized School

Check out their thoughts on blogging and balancing it all with being wives and moms at home full-time. Even if you are not a blogger or WAHM, learning how other moms find balance in this season of life is always interesting.

Resources for How to Start a Blog

How to Start a Blog in 3 Quick Steps – What Mommy Does

How to Make Money Blogging – What’s Up Fagans?

How to Start a Blog: The Beginner’s Guide to Successful Blogging – First Site Guide

Resources for Starting a Home-Based Business

Work at Home Job Resources for Moms

Work at Home Resources (part of the Complete Guide for Stay-at-Home Moms)

Home-Based Business Sharing Essential Oils

Find resources for implementing routines and schedules in your home. Printables and suggested schedules make it so easy!

 

Have you ever thought of starting a blog or a home-based business? What is holding you back?

Successful Mom Daily Checklist to help you gain balance between housework and play time with the kids. Get more done, and feel more successful as a mom and homemaker.

Enjoy your time at home!

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October 19, 2015 by Jaimi Erickson 19 Comments Filed Under: motivation Tagged With: balance, blog hop, WAHM, working

Comments

  1. dilliprasad11 says

    November 11, 2018 at 8:26 pm

    I just started my blog, HomeWorkin Mama where I will share my experiences as a WFH Mom, first time mom, etc. I am also going to homeschool my daughter and share information I learn and use for that! Please check it out!

    Reply
  2. dilliprasad says

    November 9, 2018 at 12:43 am

    I just started my blog, HomeWorkin Mama where I will share my experiences as a WFH Mom, first time mom, etc. I am also going to homeschool my daughter and share information I learn and use for that! Please check it out!
    http://homeworkinmama.com

    Reply
    • Jaimi Erickson says

      November 24, 2018 at 4:47 pm

      Wonderful! I wish you well with it.

      Reply
  3. Melissa says

    October 24, 2015 at 3:38 pm

    It is hard to balance blogging/WAH with raising a family. Sometimes I feel like there is never a break. Thanks for all of these great resources.

    Reply
    • Jaimi says

      November 1, 2015 at 10:50 pm

      I agree. My me time is basically work time now. It’s ok, because I love writing and creating, but you are right, there is always something to do.

      Reply
  4. Ludavia @ Nifty Betty says

    October 22, 2015 at 6:20 pm

    I am right there with you! I am trying to find the balance between being a SAHM and a blogger. It’s tough, but adventurous!

    Reply
    • Jaimi says

      October 23, 2015 at 10:41 pm

      Adventurous indeed! I hope you find the balance you need each day. For me it is a day-to-day ebb and flow for sure.

      Reply
  5. Lisa Brown says

    October 21, 2015 at 1:51 pm

    I sure do appreciate this post and all of the resources you share. I love staying at home, blogging, and homeschooling. It is always a fun filled day. And it is so important to keep things in perspective. When I don’t, I get stressed. It truly is a balancing act and we certainly do need to give ourselves grace. It’s hard work and it’s work worth doing. I like your blog set up and what you do. I’m glad I read more about how you got started. You inspire me. Great post. I’ll be back to read about the other Mom bloggers.

    Reply
    • Jaimi says

      October 23, 2015 at 10:45 pm

      You are so kind. I am finding my way, just like you and working hard at what God lays at my feet. Hopefully we both are doing good work for Him. I know we are both trying! 🙂 It’s always great to have you stop by.

      Reply
  6. Brandyn says

    October 20, 2015 at 2:20 pm

    Oh my gosh, I hear you! Finding the balance is indeed a challenge. I also cannot devote the amount of time that other bloggers seem to, but right now, it’s working out just fine. Blogging is an outlet for me. If I could turn it into a job, that would be fantastic, but I’m pretty okay with it just as it is for now 🙂 These are some fantastic resources you’ve included! I hope it helps someone reach their goals!

    Thank you for sharing with us at #mommymeetupmondays!

    Reply
    • Jaimi says

      October 23, 2015 at 10:47 pm

      I feel that way too, Brandyn. I wonder how some bloggers manage it all. I know for now I too have to step back and make sure my focus is on my family. Blogging is a fun outlet! I wish you the best as you explore blogging!

      Reply
  7. Jenn says

    October 20, 2015 at 1:35 pm

    Great post, Jaimi! I started my blog back before I even had children. It’s changed so much over the years it’s not even funny!
    Lots of wonderful advice here.

    Reply
    • Jaimi says

      October 23, 2015 at 10:48 pm

      You are a pro! Blogging seems to change constantly…just when I get it figured out! 🙂

      Reply
  8. Emma says

    October 20, 2015 at 12:44 pm

    Hi From Mommy Meetup Monday!

    Finding the balance as a SAHM and wanting to do other things like blogging is a constant work in progress. As soon as I thought I had it figured out, my oldest dropped his nap and my youngest went down to one nap 🙂 Now I’m in the process of finding balance again 🙂

    Reply
    • Jaimi says

      October 23, 2015 at 10:49 pm

      I know how that goes! I think I have to re-balance every other week or so. Once I get a system figured out, things change again. Kids like to keep us on our toes!

      Reply

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