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		By: Complete Guide for Stay-at-Home Moms: When You Need Encouragement &#187; The Stay-at-Home-Mom Survival Guide		</title>
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		By: 7 Favorite Crock Pot Recipes &#38; Freezer Storage Tip &#187; The Stay-at-Home-Mom Survival Guide		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] are some who may be able to make a home-cooked meal from scratch every night because they are just THAT GOOD at this mom/wife thing, but I need the crock pot!) I put together 7 favorite crock pot recipes and an essential [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] are some who may be able to make a home-cooked meal from scratch every night because they are just THAT GOOD at this mom/wife thing, but I need the crock pot!) I put together 7 favorite crock pot recipes and an essential [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: The Seasons of Parenting - The Stay-at-Home-Mom Survival Guide		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] On the outside it may appear that everything is working out in her favor. She is one of those “good moms” and you automatically get down on [&#8230;]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] On the outside it may appear that everything is working out in her favor. She is one of those “good moms” and you automatically get down on [&#8230;]</p>
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		By: Jaimi		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jaimi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2015 21:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1259&quot;&gt;Jill&lt;/a&gt;.

Jill, you sound like a very strong mom! You are so right that God gives us situations so we rely on Him and not ourselves. I bet He has equipped you to be such a great mom given the needs of your daughter. What a blessed girl she is to have you. You made my day with this comment. Thank you-and for all you do for your family!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a rel="nofollow"href="https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1259">Jill</a>.</p>
<p>Jill, you sound like a very strong mom! You are so right that God gives us situations so we rely on Him and not ourselves. I bet He has equipped you to be such a great mom given the needs of your daughter. What a blessed girl she is to have you. You made my day with this comment. Thank you-and for all you do for your family!</p>
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		By: Jill		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jill]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2015 04:17:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for this. My daughter is 7 months old and was born with hip dysplasia (which has led to braces, surgery, and a cast), which may or may not be due to her being breech, which may or may not be due to me having a funky uterus. It&#039;s been so easy to blame myself, I almost feel like I have to blame myself. I&#039;ve been so negative towards myself and my motherhood since she was born. But for whatever reason your post made something click in my head. I don&#039;t have to blame myself and I don&#039;t have to be self-deprecating about problems that I have no control over, or about my parenting. Because I am a good mom and I&#039;m doing my best with the situation the Lord has seen fit to give us. Just know you&#039;ve made a difference in at least one person&#039;s life. Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this. My daughter is 7 months old and was born with hip dysplasia (which has led to braces, surgery, and a cast), which may or may not be due to her being breech, which may or may not be due to me having a funky uterus. It&#39;s been so easy to blame myself, I almost feel like I have to blame myself. I&#39;ve been so negative towards myself and my motherhood since she was born. But for whatever reason your post made something click in my head. I don&#39;t have to blame myself and I don&#39;t have to be self-deprecating about problems that I have no control over, or about my parenting. Because I am a good mom and I&#39;m doing my best with the situation the Lord has seen fit to give us. Just know you&#39;ve made a difference in at least one person&#39;s life. Thank you.</p>
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		By: Jaimi		</title>
		<link>https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1201</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jaimi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2014 04:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1200&quot;&gt;Julie @ Loggers Wife&lt;/a&gt;.

I love your candid comment here, Julie. You are revealing so much of importance-you show your strengths and how it balances out in your home. All of us have the things we do well-my house is generally picked up of toys at the end of the day-but there may be pots and pans on the stove that have not been washed yet, or laundry not yet put in drawers. This is so important for all moms to see. We each have to find our balance by exploiting our strengths! Thank you so much for sharing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a rel="nofollow"href="https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1200">Julie @ Loggers Wife</a>.</p>
<p>I love your candid comment here, Julie. You are revealing so much of importance-you show your strengths and how it balances out in your home. All of us have the things we do well-my house is generally picked up of toys at the end of the day-but there may be pots and pans on the stove that have not been washed yet, or laundry not yet put in drawers. This is so important for all moms to see. We each have to find our balance by exploiting our strengths! Thank you so much for sharing!</p>
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		By: Julie @ Loggers Wife		</title>
		<link>https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1200</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Julie @ Loggers Wife]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2014 12:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love this! I know I personally have even joked over something with a &#034;haha, I&#039;m a terrible mom.&#034; But I&#039;m not. My child is polite, well adjusted, flexible, and the sweetest 2.5yr old most people have met. Sure, a lot of it is her personality but I am raising her well. I am a good mom. I have totally been made to feel bad because I have a fairly clean house and make most our food from scratch (&#034;I&#039;m too busy playing to take care of the house&#034;). But hey, we also watch more than the recommended amount of TV. So I&#039;ve had the &#034;perfect mom&#034; types try to guilt me too. I really wish moms would own their decisions without feeling guilty and stop the &#034;soft bullying&#034; of other moms. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this! I know I personally have even joked over something with a &quot;haha, I&#39;m a terrible mom.&quot; But I&#39;m not. My child is polite, well adjusted, flexible, and the sweetest 2.5yr old most people have met. Sure, a lot of it is her personality but I am raising her well. I am a good mom. I have totally been made to feel bad because I have a fairly clean house and make most our food from scratch (&quot;I&#39;m too busy playing to take care of the house&quot;). But hey, we also watch more than the recommended amount of TV. So I&#39;ve had the &quot;perfect mom&quot; types try to guilt me too. I really wish moms would own their decisions without feeling guilty and stop the &quot;soft bullying&quot; of other moms. </p>
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		By: Jaimi		</title>
		<link>https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1198</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jaimi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2014 05:21:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1194&quot;&gt;Anonymous&lt;/a&gt;.

Sara, that means a lot to me. I am trying to figure this motherhood thing out too. I think learning from successful moms is important, but molding what works for them into what can work for us is key. Great examples should be in our sights-it only helps us get better. All the best to you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a rel="nofollow"href="https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1194">Anonymous</a>.</p>
<p>Sara, that means a lot to me. I am trying to figure this motherhood thing out too. I think learning from successful moms is important, but molding what works for them into what can work for us is key. Great examples should be in our sights-it only helps us get better. All the best to you!</p>
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		By: Jaimi		</title>
		<link>https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1197</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jaimi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2014 05:19:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1195&quot;&gt;Anonymous&lt;/a&gt;.

It is a small world! You make a great point-we can learn from other moms, but we can also help other moms with our experiences. Thanks for stopping by!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a rel="nofollow"href="https://thestay-at-home-momsurvivalguide.com/when-did-being-good-mom-become-bad-thing/#comment-1195">Anonymous</a>.</p>
<p>It is a small world! You make a great point-we can learn from other moms, but we can also help other moms with our experiences. Thanks for stopping by!</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2014 15:40:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I stumbled across your post via Facebook and realized I know you! Small world, especially in the Marine Corps. Anyway, I agree. I want to learn from the moms who &#034;have it all together&#034; and when I figure out something, or it really clicks for my family, I want to share! I&#039;m encouraged when I see a mom balancing things well.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I stumbled across your post via Facebook and realized I know you! Small world, especially in the Marine Corps. Anyway, I agree. I want to learn from the moms who &quot;have it all together&quot; and when I figure out something, or it really clicks for my family, I want to share! I&#39;m encouraged when I see a mom balancing things well.</p>
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